Four-Handed Massage for Women
This is a unique and special experience and it’s all about you! Time for you, away from family, children, work or relationship pressures. You are likely to experience types of touch you never knew existed (let alone knew you could enjoy!) without the pressure to give anything back in return.
Here you can let go of that pressure and know that you are accepted in your heart and body just as you are. In a culture that encourages competition and comparison between women, we offer an embodied experience that can begin to heal that wound. Imagine a space of non-judgement and unconditional love. You will find that here in abundance.
With me you are in safe hands, I have years of massage and personal development experience. I am trauma informed and I bring the integrity of my long-term Tantric relationship with my partner to the session. You can choose between a man and a woman or 2 women.
We welcome women of all ages, body shapes and sizes, and relationship styles.
Know that you can keep your underwear on if you choose, and this massage does not include the yoni (vulva) unless that is your choice. We brush over the genitals if you consent to that, but do not massage this area per se.
My intention is to welcome and include the whole body as sacred. Feeling safe is the number one thing that women expect when they receive a massage from another woman.
Most women have had experiences where they have been touched in a way that didn’t feel good or that they didn’t ask for and may have been unable to speak to this at the time.
Here we check in and support you in receiving the type of touch you want, and where you want it, without pressure or expectation. You can change your mind at any point during the session even if it was something you originally wanted.
In my many years of offering both two-handed and four-handed massage (also known as four hands massage) sessions, I have noticed that women are far less likely to dedicate time and money to this kind of experience.
I want to turn that tide. You deserve it. So, I look forward to you joining me on this journey of discovery.
If you are a man reading this, we hope you will treat your woman to an experience she is deeply deserving of!
If you are interested in reading more about our four-handed massage please visit my website dedicated to that work: www.four-handedmassage.co.uk
If you would like to read what some of my previous clients have said about me take a look at ‘What People Say’
Co-creating Your Own Massage Experience
Working with an integrated approach of bodywork, energy work, breath, somatic experiencing, sound, words and eye contact can lead to a deeper intimacy with yourself, your body-mind and your heart, increase your vitality and deepen your connection to a sense of embodied presence.
The make-up of our team enables us to bring different qualities to the massage depending on your purpose or intention for the experience. You are welcome to discuss this choice with Harmony prior to making a booking.
The opportunity for a woman to receive massage from both a female and male practitioner together brings a unique blend of masculine and feminine energy and enables you to explore a range of experiences in a safely held space.
You are always at choice and we work carefully with consent and boundaries. Some women benefit from the opportunity to enjoy sensual touch from a man in a world where the safe space is also held by a woman.
One of our intentions is to support you to have experiences you want, both on the massage table and in life. We deeply value when people tell us during a session about what they do or do not like and will encourage you to explore this.
Although our sessions are much about relaxation and letting go, we will encourage you to be as engaged as possible as this can bring full aliveness to your body. We may speak to you during the session, encouraging breath and guiding you to check in with your mind and your body sensations. We find that this can support a more integrated body-mind experience with long-lasting benefits that can assist way beyond the massage couch.
Practicalities
Sessions can be booked for 2 or 3 hours and this allows time for connecting, setting intentions and stating boundaries before the treatment and grounding and sharing afterwards.
Please feel free to express a preference for either a male and female practitioner or two female practitioners. The choice between these options brings a different dynamic and flavour to your massage experience and it can be useful to have a conversation about what you want from the massage before deciding.
We suggest that clients try one session and then, if appropriate, we can discuss booking a series of sessions where there is an opportunity to deepen into the experience and process.
Sessions are currently held in a warm, comfortable and safe space near Totnes in Devon.
We also offer sessions at events and retreats.
Prices
The investment for a Four Handed Massage in a two-hour session is £375. [Please note when considering the pricing, that it is based on there being two experienced practitioners devoting their full attention to you for two hours, so comparing to 4 times the cost of a standard holistic massage.]
A three-hour session would be £475.
These times allow for introduction, discussing practicalities, setting intentions and clarifying boundaries. We also allow time for integration after the massage and space for sharing if desired. For a two-hour session you can expect at least 90 minutes receiving the massage itself, depending on your intention and what you bring to the session.
'MID-SUMMER DISCOUNT SPECIAL' - FOR NEW CLIENTS ONLY
Summer is really here…and what could be better than an beautiful Four-Handed Massage to help you slow down, nourish your body, mind and spirit and reconnect with your true essence so that you can make the most of this special summer time magic.
AND…if you are completely new to my work your first session will attract a generous discount if you make a booking any time during June, July or August and receive the massage session at any time up to the end of October. Further discounted sessions are offered to those who book a series of 4 after an initial booking.
Weekend sessions are also available for those of you who can’t get off work in the week. You will need to book ahead though as they are proving to be popular!
What’s not to love!
So a 2-hour session is only £335 and a
3-hour session would be just £420
(Booking during June, July and August
for sessions taken up to the end of October)
Booking and Cancellation
Please contact Harmony to arrange an initial consultation or to book your session – email: harmony@four-handedmassage.co.uk
We aim to get back to you within 48 hours of your email, or within 72 hours over a weekend.
Please note that we ask for a 50% deposit on booking with the balance to be paid on the day of the session. If a cancellation is made more than 48 hours before the start of the session, there is an option for a refund or to rebook.
If a cancellation is made within 48 hours of the session time, 25% of the full fee is charged, and within 24 hours 50% is charged.
If the session is cancelled on the day of the booking the full fee is payable. If you have a genuine emergency, please do let us know and let’s have a conversation.
See here for further information about Terms & Conditions, Privacy and Cancellation Policies.
New for Women - In Depth Coaching for Touching Men's Bodies
I am excited to bring you this new offering for women…
This session is for anyone who touches or is interested in touching men’s bodies – whether in a relationship or not. You’ll learn effortless, generous, and deeply connecting ways to touch a man that go beyond simply chasing climax. Instead, you’ll offer him pleasure, presence, and reverence, allowing him to feel truly seen and cherished. The deep satisfaction this creates lingers far beyond the moment.
Touching Men with Dignity and Devotion
- Have you ever felt unsure about how to touch your man’s body?
- Do you sometimes feel intimidated or confused by male sexuality?
- Do you avoid touching his genitals for fear of “getting it wrong”?
- Or do you rush through it, hoping he climaxes quickly so you can move on to something else?
- Perhaps you’re anxious that you’re expected to mimic that ‘piston-like’ motion (after all, isn’t that what he wants?!) – but what if it doesn’t work, leaving you exhausted and both of you feeling awkward?
None of these experiences feel truly fulfilling, and even if there’s a brief dopamine hit, it rarely satisfies on a deeper soul level. Over time, this disconnect can grow.
The truth? You’re not expected to replicate decades of his own quick, efficient masturbation techniques. Unless you’re highly practiced or full of boundless energy, that’s a near-impossible feat.
The really good news? You don’t have to.
For the last five years, through my Deluxe Devotional Tantra Massage sessions and Sexuality Coaching, I’ve witnessed first-hand that much of what we’ve been told, shown, or assumed about men’s sexuality is incomplete—a tangled mix of myths, misinformation, and porn-fueled fantasies.
What do men truly want?
Above all, men crave safety. They long to feel accepted, loved, valued, and touched with dignity, devotion and desire. They want to be honoured as whole beings – mind, body, and soul.
That’s why I created my new offering of Sexuality Coaching dedicated to Touching Men with Dignity and Devotion.
Is this For You...?
This session is perfect if you:
✅ Want to touch a man with your heart and full presence (you don’t need to be in a relationship – why not learn now?)
✅ Want to explore giving back to your partner in a deeply intimate way
✅ Are curious about Tantric or Devotional practices
✅ Want to shift the trajectory of your sexual connection – now or in future relationships
✅ Would love to learn simple, easeful, pleasurable ways of touching the genitals without strain, wrist ache, or exhaustion
Feel present, centred and confident to offer this to any man.
Deepen Connection ... Awaken Sensation ... Transform Intimacy
Want to Know More...?
Would you like to go even deeper... and learn more about Tantra?
Women's Embodied Sexual Coaching
Sacred Sensual Spiritual Pleasures
If you are interested and feel ready to go deeper into ‘sacred sensual spiritual pleasures’ during a session with me, then please contact me by email at harmony@devotionaltantramassage.co.uk and I will send you further information.
'Clothes On' Coaching Sessions for Women
I offer two-hour ‘clothes on’ coaching sessions for women, either in person or online via zoom, where we will explore practices that you can try at home to heal old stories, amplify your sexual energy, and discover how to enjoy your body, both solo and with another.
Contact me by email at harmony@devotionaltantramassage.co.uk if you would like to know more.
Online Beginners Tantric Book Club for Women
This is a small closed group that runs twice a year. We meet weekly for 7-10 weeks online for 60-75 mins.
We read a chapter at home and then share our discoveries at the following week session.
Each session I will lead a short practice from the material as a well as hold embodied meditations to begin and end our group.
We will use group sharing but also breakout rooms for more intimate shares.
You can also book online or in-person massage or coaching sessions with me for 50% off during the course of the group to enhance your healing, growth and pleasure.
Sometimes we will hold a bonus Q and A with the author of the book for a transmission of what living is really like while immersed in this work.
The Tantric Book Club is the most affordable way to work with me if you want to study and learn about Tantric practice and ways to elevate your intimacy.
The fee is £110 for a 7-10 week course and there are 12 spaces per group.
To find out when the next group starts, or for more information, please contact me by email at harmonyembodiment@gmail.com or via WhatsApp.
Devotional Tantra Experience Days
Immerse yourself in the art of intimacy and devotion for a whole day. Take away both the embodied experience and the practices you will learn.
Dedicate a day to your own sensual and sexual learning, awakening and pleasure.
In the morning you will be guided in practices to use breath, sound, movement, imagination and presence to activate your sexual energy.
In the afternoon you will be initiated through ritual into receiving an exquisite four-handed massage where you get to bring these alive states of being into the session.
Feel more open, alive, present and connected to your heart and your sexuality.
For people who want more, and to learn how to understand, honour and cultivate their sexual energy, while exploring how to take Tantra into their daily lives.
Sessions take place in Totnes which is a beautiful small town in South Devon where there are plenty of places to eat and drink during the one-hour lunch break, when you are encouraged to take some time out before resuming for the afternoon session.
For more information contact Harmony via WhatsApp or by email at harmony@devotionaltantramassage.co.uk
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