Devotional Tantra Massage

Touching Men with Dignity and Devotion

  • Have you ever felt unsure about how to touch your man’s body?
  • Do you sometimes feel intimidated or confused by male sexuality?
  • Do you avoid touching his genitals for fear of “getting it wrong”?
  • Or do you rush through it, hoping he climaxes quickly so you can move on to something else?
  • Perhaps you’re anxious that you’re expected to mimic that ‘piston-like’ motion (after all, isn’t that what he wants?!) – but what if it doesn’t work, leaving you exhausted and both of you feeling awkward? 
Sensual Touch

None of these experiences feel truly fulfilling, and even if there’s a brief dopamine hit, it rarely satisfies on a deeper soul level. Over time, this disconnect can grow.

The truth? You’re not expected to replicate decades of his own quick, efficient masturbation techniques. Unless you’re highly practiced or full of boundless energy, that’s a near-impossible feat.

The really good news? You don’t have to.

For the last five years, through my Deluxe Devotional Tantra Massage sessions and Sexuality Coaching, I’ve witnessed first-hand that much of what we’ve been told, shown, or assumed about men’s sexuality is incomplete—a tangled mix of myths, misinformation, and porn-fueled fantasies.

Sensual touch massage for a man

What do men truly want?

Above all, men crave safety. They long to feel accepted, loved, valued, and touched with dignity, devotion and desire. They want to be honoured as whole beings – mind, body, and soul.

That’s why I created…

New for Women - In Depth Coaching for Touching Men's Bodies

 

This session is for anyone who touches or is interested in touching men’s bodies – whether in a relationship or not. You’ll learn effortless, generous, and deeply connecting ways to touch a man that go beyond simply chasing climax. Instead, you’ll offer him pleasure, presence, and reverence, allowing him to feel truly seen and cherished. The deep satisfaction this creates lingers far beyond the moment.

Is this for you?

This session is perfect if you:


✅ Want to touch a man with your heart and full presence (you don’t need to be in a relationship – why not learn now?)

✅ Want to explore giving back to your partner in a deeply intimate way

✅ Are curious about Tantric or Devotional practices

✅ Want to shift the trajectory of your sexual connection – now or in future relationships

✅ Would love to learn simple, easeful, pleasurable ways of touching the genitals without strain, wrist ache, or exhaustion

Feel present, centred and confident to offer this to any man.

What Will You Learn?

 💫 A 10-15 minute Tantric Devotional Ritual—a complete practice on its own

💫 How to be fully present when touching your partner

💫 Guidance for posture, breath, rhythm, and pace

💫 A simple yet eye-opening introduction to genital anatomy

💫 Simple, natural language to get feedback that keeps the focus on him and his needs

💫 At least 5 hands-on techniques to touch the lingam with both Desire and Devotion

This isn’t about pressure, performance, or just “getting the job done.” It’s about connection, exploration, and pleasure. While the touch is primarily for him its also something you can both enjoy.

Are you ready to touch with dignity, desire, and devotion?

How It Works

 

This isn’t just about technique—it’s about trust, presence, and creating a space where a man can fully receive. Whether you’re here to nurture your partner, expand your skills, or simply learn a new way to connect, this journey is for you.

🔹 Step 1: Discovery (30-minute virtual call) – Let’s explore where you are and map out your path

🔹 Step 2: Embodied Learning (60-minute in-person session) – Hands-on practice in a safe, guided environment

🔹 Step 3: Integration (30-minute virtual follow-up) – Reinforce your skills, ask questions, and deepen your understanding

Touch in Relationship

Investment

💰 £200 – A priceless skill for a lifetime of deeper connection

💳 Flexible Payment Options:

✔ Secure your spot with 50% upfront, pay the rest on the day

✔ Need support? Let’s chat—we’ll find a way to make it work

How To Begin

1️⃣ Book Your Free Intro Call – (click here or see the ‘Select a Date & Time’ button lower down this page)

2️⃣ Choose Your Date – Let’s set a time that works for you

3️⃣ Make Your Payment – Pay in full or with a deposit

4️⃣ Show Up & Learn – Step into a new way of connection

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need to be in a relationship?

Nope! Whether you’re single, partnered, or exploring open relationships, this is about you expanding your skills.

What if my partner has erectile difficulties or struggles to ejaculate?

This practice isn’t about performance—it’s about presence which all men are longing for. Many men feel pressure around intimacy, and learning to touch with devotion (without expectation) can be deeply healing for the person receiving. This is about connection, not results.

This approach is wonderful if your partner gets stressed out.. Knowing you want to touch them even when they can’t currently experience these things can be both reassuring and healing.

NB. There is no pressure or expectation that a man will have an erection or orgasm. The intention is heartful connection with their body and between you both.

Will I practice on a real person?

You’ll learn using a demonstration model, but if you’d prefer a live practice partner, we can explore options.

Do I need to be naked?

Not at all! All sessions are fully clothed.

Can I learn online?

Yes! Virtual learning is surprisingly effective, especially if you have a partner to practice with afterward.

Can I bring my partner?

Absolutely! Learning together can be an incredible bonding experience. Get in touch for couples pricing.

I have no experience—can I still join?

Yes! Whether you’re brand new to this or a professional in a related field (bodyworkers, relationship coaches, sexuality educators or sex workers), there’s something here for you. 

What if I can’t afford it?

I have got you covered…

💡 Split the cost into two payments

💡 Join with 1-3 friends and pay as little as £100 each! (Contact me by email for more details)

Book Your Free Call Now

To select a date and schedule a free 20 minute phone call with me just fill in the booking form via the button below. You will need to include your name, email address and phone number and add any particular requirements or questions in the notes section. 

When Was the Last Time?

If the booking is accepted you should receive an email confirming your booking date and time. Please call me on 07809 488993 at the agreed time.

Thank you and I look forward to speaking with you soon.

* If you can’t make any of the times shown then contact me by WhatsApp or email at the address shown at the bottom of this page.

About Me as A Sexuality Coach

I have been working in the field of Tantric sexuality for the last 8 years and hold the Certificate of Somatic Sex Coaching from the Institute of Somatic Sexology.

I also have a Professional Certificate in Working with Vaginismus with Dr Martha Lee and in Embodied Leadership with the Devon School of Soul Motion.

Check out what people have said about their experience of coaching sessions here.

Cost for a single 60-minute session is £85 and just £120 for a 1 1/2 hour session. A block of four 60-minute sessions costs just £240 when paid for in advance. *

Contact me by email at harmony@devotionaltantramassage.co.uk if you would like to know more.

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Harmony

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