Sexuality Coaching & Online Offerings

Sessions for Men and Women

We all have "problems", big and small, and that includes sexual problems or relationship issues. We wouldn't be human if we didn't have these at some time in our lives! But who to share them with? Our best mate? Significant other? Colleague? Parent? Boss? Doctor? Maybe, but a lot of people benefit from speaking to me first!

Resolution often begins by sharing our concerns with another person, about what's happening, how we are feeling about it and what we would like to change.

Sexual challenges and relationship blocks can be opportunities. These sessions can help you see these real opportunities for yourself and are usually 60 minute conversations which can be experienced either online or in person.

In this way you can:

Share and be heard in a non-judgemental and compassionate supportive space
Begin to relieve the stress and burden of carrying the issue
Look at desire-based solutions so you focus on what you do want rather than what you don't have
Go away with at least one action you can take to improve your situation and with recommendations for books, articles, practitioners, or events that may help you on your journey - I am a mine of useful information!
Realise you are not alone in this, and that there is no shame in sexual issues

I have been working in the field of Tantric sexuality for the last 7 years and hold the Certificate of Somatic Sex Coaching for the Institute of Somatic Sexology.

I also have a Professional Certificate in Working with Vaginismus with Dr Martha Lee and in Embodied Leadership with the Devon School of Soul Motion.

Check out what people have said about their experience of coaching sessions here.

Cost for a single 60-minute session is on a sliding scale of £65 -£95*

Contact me by WhatsApp, phone or email at harmony@devotionaltantramassage.co.uk if you would like to know more.

* Please read terms and conditions

New for Women - In Depth Coaching for Touching Men's Bodies

I am excited to bring you this new offering for women...

This session is for anyone who touches or is interested in touching men’s bodies – whether in a relationship or not. You’ll learn effortless, generous, and deeply connecting ways to touch a man that go beyond simply chasing climax. Instead, you’ll offer him pleasure, presence, and reverence, allowing him to feel truly seen and cherished. The deep satisfaction this creates lingers far beyond the moment.

Touching Men with Dignity and Devotion

Have you ever felt unsure about how to touch your man’s body?

Do you sometimes feel intimidated or confused by male sexuality?

Do you avoid touching his genitals for fear of “getting it wrong”?

Or do you rush through it, hoping he climaxes quickly so you can move on to something else?

Perhaps you’re anxious that you’re expected to mimic that ‘piston-like’ motion (after all, isn’t that what he wants?!) – but what if it doesn’t work, leaving you exhausted and both of you feeling awkward?

None of these experiences feel truly fulfilling, and even if there’s a brief dopamine hit, it rarely satisfies on a deeper soul level. Over time, this disconnect can grow.

The truth? You’re not expected to replicate decades of his own quick, efficient masturbation techniques. Unless you’re highly practiced or full of boundless energy, that’s a near-impossible feat.

The really good news? You don’t have to.

For the last five years, through my Deluxe Devotional Tantra Massage sessions and Sexuality Coaching, I’ve witnessed first-hand that much of what we’ve been told, shown, or assumed about men’s sexuality is incomplete—a tangled mix of myths, misinformation, and porn-fueled fantasies.

What do men truly want?

Above all, men crave safety. They long to feel accepted, loved, valued, and touched with dignity, devotion and desire. They want to be honoured as whole beings – mind, body, and soul.

That’s why I created my new offering of Sexuality Coaching dedicated to Touching Men with Dignity and Devotion.