Published on: 17 March 2026

Who Deserves Touch?

EVERYONE Deserves Touch

Touch is one of our most fundamental human needs.

Science says that babies cannot thrive without eye contact, affirmation and holding.

I BELIEVE THIS IS TRUE FOR ALL OF US.

TOUCH can be:

๐Ÿ’ Soothing and calming to the nervous system...we relax.

๐Ÿ’ Invigorating and help us to feel like we are alive and pulsating with life and vitality.

๐Ÿ’ Pleasurable and Arousing as we stimulate the production of the hormonesย oxytocin, dopamine and serotonin, otherwise known as the feel-good hormones.ย In turn cortisol, the stress hormone is inhibited.

๐Ÿ’ A way of decreasing pain and inflammation (in the heart, mind and body).

When touched we feel wanted, we feel valued and we have a sense of belonging, of being enough.

EVERYONE deserves touch.

Did you know that?

Why So...What Are the Benefits?

Anxiety and Depression are less prevalent among those who receive loving, safe and connected touch. Our immune systems are strengthened and we experience less anxiety and depression.

Overall - we are happier and we heal, both physically and emotionally, when we are appropriately and generously touched. 

How Can I Receive More Loving Touch?

EVERYONE deserves touch.

In Devotional Tantric Massage I take this further:

๐Ÿ’ I HONOUR your body

๐Ÿ’ I CELEBRATE your body

๐Ÿ’ I LOVE your body unconditionally

๐Ÿ’ YOU are ENOUGH

YOU are welcome as you are, regardless of your age, size, gender, sexual orientation, societal status or not, financial success or not, family or no family, sexually thriving or sexually challenged, single or in partnership *

I offer you EYE GAZING, POSITIVE AFFIRMATION, NOURISHING TOUCH AND HOLDING.

I think that EVERYONE deserves touch, and YOU are one of those people...so you deserve it too!

Something to Try Right Now

Take a few moments, maybe with a pen and paper and ask yourself:

What touch am I most wanting and needing right now? 

How would my life be better if I received this?

Drop me a line and let me know and let's embark on this journey together.

EVERYONE deserves touch.

With Deep Love,

Harmony x

* There are of course some medical, physical and emotional health questions I ask to ensure that we are helping you rather than putting you or ourselves at risk.

For more details send me an email or book a free 15 minute call with me.

If you book a call, thereโ€™s no pressure or expectation, simply a warm confidential chat where you can ask anything and be fully heard, which will help you decide whatโ€™s best for you.

Go on, give it a tryโ€ฆ

To Your Pleasure

Harmony x

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